Strength is when you feel terribly rejected but are still climbing with a firm grip!
Author: Masuma
On Ashara
“This reality of past will never fade
Those echoes of the cries will resonate
right over wrong
guide over pride
empathy over sympathy
winning over victory
strength over despair
This reality of past will never fade
Those echoes of the cries will resonate”
Rise
Even if your shadows are quiet grow bigger to cast a clearer sketch
Even if your echoes are gentle grow louder to greet the hidden depths
The lights will shine and the reach will be grand.
Ek
ek monitor ek keyboard
ek samundar nila
aur sau sawaal
ek phone ek camera
ek pehredaar akela
aur andaaz hazaar
Amreen organising Birthday Parties
The mist of joys we have experienced with growing kids should hopefully touch them in future.
This year on two birthdays both for her Dadaji’s once was his varas and the other was his birthday Amreen wanted to set up a party. So very diligently she lay out all the props for the different activities she had set up. She also set a time for the party and invited us the family members. Her invitation was not open to no, it was a compulsory attendance else the tantrum could had been ummhmmm not a place where I want to be.
Although honestly none of us adults were really keen, probably we are so pre-ocuppied with our own interests and priorities that a beautiful opportunity would have just passed by. Amreen kept saying i have organised such a wonderful party and have put in so much effort and no one is showing the excitement..she was skeptical that we would honour her time..it was set at 5:00 p.m which got delayed to 7:30 pm and it was me who actually pulled everyone into attending it..and guess what.
Before the party she gave us a tour..of what is set up and explained everything and asked us if we had any questions we can consult with her and she was happy to explain.
it was exhilarating honestly!
so she had a
- sports corner
- dance corner
- modelling ramp
- food counter
- water counter
- singing feat
- one challenge – to stack pegs in such a way that it can hold two slippers.
- Last birthday cake cutting.
All of us family members had to have a go at everything..so u can imagine we and inlaws must have had a real fun time…and we build such lovely and joyous memories.
In our backyard a magical evening was laid out. Thanks to Amreen.
Her second party was more advanced where she had treasure hunt with a treasure map. She made us play parcing the parcel and her sense of gifting was very innovative.
I had to push this post for a place to come back and live the moments !
Pictionary Zahra acts food
Amreen’s friend Kathya had come over for a sleep over. This special evening was very exciting for our young Zahra.
I thought of playing pictionary with the girls and i would give them the words to act out.
It was the very first time that Zahra, Kathya and Amreen were introduced to this game format and they were extremely excited.
Amreen had a go
Kathya had a go
And it was Zahra’s turn – I had to give her a simple word – so I gave her the word “food”.
She showed the action of eating food and after that she started doing cartwheels.
The girls did guess the word food.
Although all of us were wondering why was she doing cartwheels and we asked her.
She said because I have energy now as I ate food.
oh My Gosh – we could not stop laughing.
Context to her act is:
I have always explained to her that she needs energy to do various things and eating food will provide her energy. So Zahra little Zahra Oh my Zahra!
Gozleme – Servings 30
Our Easter break at Turkey brought us closer to rich cultural experiences. One of them was Gozleme, a food dish we savoured every day by the beach side at Antalya.
It was a no brainer that this was going to be my evening snacks for our next potluck. We are 6 couples with 11 kids which means lengthy hours of sweat and love in the kitchen to make Gozleme. Since I had eaten them freshly made the only apprehension for me was to prepare a bulk quantity in advance to serve it the next evening at a friends place.
Spoke to few of my friends and it was clear that there is no chance I can roll them out and stuff it and fry it to serve fresh on the day. They beautifully encouraged me to give it try. Our potluck fine starts at 12:45 p.m. so an evening before was my lovely cooking day. Researched the web to find out about storing tips for stuffed gozleme, cooked gozleme, only dough etc.
Lots of ideas on how to store it and the best option to me was to store cooked gozleme although I still needed assurance and to be calm I stepped out and reached out to the turkish cooks at a Turkish kebab joint nearby. Discussed my Gozleme plan. Their feedback matched and that pushed up my confidence. So I unlocked those belts in my mind and full spirited prepared Gozleme and stored them in freezer bags (5 Gozleme in one big freezer bag) in the refrigerator for the next day.
At my friends too kept them chilled in her fridge. Warmed them in the oven for say 30 minutes before serving and then they hit the hungry heads – kids finished them with licks and adults loved them. SO I am thrilled to share the recipe!
Ingredients:
For Dough
- Self-raising flour – 1.25kg
- Greek Yoghurt – 1kg
- Olive oil – as needed
- Pinch of salt
For filling:
- Minced Lamb meat – 1 kg
- Coriander leaves – 1/2 bundle pack
- Mint leaves – 1/2 bundle pack
- Spices (the amounts I took based on my regular cooking skills, cannot provide measurements)
- sumac
- cinnamon powder
- Turmeric
- Red chilli powder
- Black pepper powder
- Cumin seed Powder
- Coriander Powder
- Ginger paste
- Garlic paste
- Feta cheese
- Cheddar cheese
- Tomato ketchup (optional)
- Salt (as per taste)
- One onion finely chopped
- Bell peppers mixed( green yellow red)
Method:
For Dough:
- Empty the flour in a big bowl
- Add salt as per your taste and mix
- Add yoghurt in batches and mix until all of it is added.
- Now knead it into a soft and sticky dough
- Add some olive oil at the end.
- Cover the bowl with a cling film and keep it aside for 30 minutes. I had kept it for 4 long hours.
For Filling:
Meat:
- Take a pan and put 1 spoon oil
- Saute the chopped onions until they are translucent and have turned soft.
- Now add all the spices + garlic + ginger paste
- Saute for 30 seconds
- Add lamb Minced meat to it.
- Add salt
- Mix well and let it cook.
- Once the minced meat is cooked then empty it into a big bowl. The meat should be dry after cooking.
- Chop coriander leaves and mint leaves and add them to the minced meat and mix it well.
- Crumble feta cheese and keep ready in a bowl
Bell peppers:
- Cut the bell peppers into thin strips.
- Heat a pan with 1tbsp oil on medium flame
- Add garlic, salt. pepper and bell pepper strips
- Saute them for say 2-3 minutes or until it turns tender.
- Empty them into a bowl.
Preparation:
- Divide the dough into even balls of the same size.
- Roll out each dough ball using a rolling pin. It should sit thin so that u can see the other side of the surface
- The dough may be sticky so use flour on the surface for making it an easy job.
- Now start your filling in any order
- minced meat
- cheddar cheese
- feta cheese
- bell peppers
- squirts of ketchup
- Now fold the dough into a semi circle
- gently tap the curved edge with a spoon or your fingers to seal it.
- Now brush some olive oil on one side of the package
- Heat the frying pan and put the oiled side on the the pan to cook first.
- Brush oil on the other side.
- Cook each side until it turns golden
- Gozleme are ready, cut them into three and serve with lemon and a glass of Ayran!
You can try out different stuffings, there are so many innovative ideas.




Turmeric and Sandalwood
So where ever I look I keep analysing. It may not result in a resolved understanding but yea thoughts dont tire me.
Now ofcourse I wont spare my own self, so I do look at my face everyday in the mirror as a subject to study and analyse. I watch how it keeps changing so subtly.
Lately a red patch on my nose and cheeks was flaring up loud – no it does not look rosy..it looks a bit unusual.
My different theories in association with my medical condition, I knew what had likely happened.
This only made me question what can I actually do to be in control?
1: sleep well
2: worry less
3: love without hesitation.
4: be realistic with everything I do – aim high, be realistic. As a parent life is challenging and very very tough sometimes rough..dont feel that u have sacrificed, enjoy them. Also understand that everyone understands.
5: drink water (warm)
6: be watchful of what u eat.
7: wear a hat always
8: wear sunscreen everyday
9: moisturise
10: oil ur hair, head massage twice a week
11: exercise or run or walk or do a sport
12: read, read, read.
13: Turmeric powder + Sandal wood powder + rose water + olive oil + chickpea flour + milk – make a paste and apply it on your face everyday. let it dry and then rinse it off with water.
14: practise minimialism with pride
15: talk to your self .
16: be thankful, start your day as a blessing.
All you Women – Happy Day!
At every step a woman stands beautiful.
All she need is being understood.
And its true when you understand things life functions better 🙂